I finally got my Valentines Day gift. It took almost three weeks to get it back from being resized. I sat here for what seemed like forever trying to get a clear pic of it so you guys could see it. The pics above are the best I could get before getting aggravated and giving up.
My visit with Cameron's Principal on Monday didn't go so well. Cameron was suspended for three days causing him to miss a test they were having that counted as half of his grade. The reason he was suspended was for destroying school property by tearing the eraser out of his pencil, refusing to do an assignment, and cursing.
Should Cameron have been punished for that? Yes! Should he have been suspended? NO! Especially when there's kids at the school getting caught smoking in the bathroom on a daily basis and they are yet to get anything besides a warning or in school suspension.
Put my truck in the shop yesterday and got the break line fixed plus new breaks. Picked it up today and was hoping to get out of the house for a while but that didn't work out.
Cameron and I both spent most of yesterday at the Dr's office. Neither of us got good news. He's showing signs of I think she called it pre-diabetes plus his blood pressure has been high the last two visits. He's 6'4 and 265 pounds. When you try to talk to him about how he eats or losing some weight, he says he doesn't care. Thank God for fear and common sense or I'd ring his neck. LOL
Me and my problems, I'm not even gonna go into it. I'm so sick of going to Dr's and on top of all the others I see, I now have two more.
The Dr I saw yesterday suggested I reapply for disability. So, here we go with this again. I've been turned down 4 times within the last couple of years and there's so much paper work. This time, I'm getting a lawyer so maybe that'll help.
If it wasn't for needing the income and wanting to support myself instead of depending on Robert, I wouldn't even bother.
I do know one thing for certain though, if I am approved this time, I plan on taking what I want and need and then walkingoff and leaving the rest behind, including Robert. I've asked him to leave several times and he refuses so what other choice do I have than to leave myself.
I don't care how good he is to me, if he isn't good to my child and I do nothing about it then what kind of Mother am I to stay with him?
Every single time Cameron gets into trouble in school Robert gets hateful with me and Cameron and doesn't stop until he blows up calling Cameron names like stupid, dumbass, or fat fuck. Then he tells me how sorry of a Mom I am, That if it was his kid he'd put his foot in Cameron's ass. Or he compares my parenting to his ex wifes parenting. Well, his ex wife had a daughter, not a son and there is a difference.
He told me once that he was stupid for leaving his ex wife because she was a hell of a better woman than I am. My answer to that was, if she was all that, why did you leave her in the first place and why don't you take your ass back to her? Oh wait, I know why, because she won't have your sorry fat ass.
5 comments:
The ring is beautiful! I love it! I think they should be ashamed treating Cameron like that...suspended?! tearing the eraser from a pencil...wow...evil child!...I am glad you got your brakes done! phew!...omg! poor Cameron, who the hell does Robert think he is calling him fat and dumb! My youngest son is his size and he has had years of misery over it! I feel so sorry for you and Cameron Lahoma...kick his fat ass back to his ex! lol Linda xx
I do like the ring! It is very nice!
If the rental agreement has your name on it, and not Robert's, call the police and have him escorted out. You can tell them how he treats your son - that is verbal abuse. And who in the hell is he to talk about weight?
If you want to talk, you know I'm here for you. Sorry to hear that things aren't so great with Cameron too. I'd be pitching a bitch to the principal about fairness. Go over his/her head if you have to.
Love you,
Sheila
WOW!! That ring is GORGEOUS! I Didnt know you had that coming for Valentine's day, girlfriend? I love it! Did you get a manicure also? Your nails are really nice.
I am sorry I havent been around here much. I didnt know that you were having this much trouble with Robert? You would think, if he really feels that his ex-wife is that much better than you, that he would get away from you, and try to get back with her. I wouldnt take that too lightly. I think that his statements about you being a bad mother would be enough to end the relationship, cause I know how you feel about that being said about you. ITS NOT TRUE THOUGH! My God, you have been to hell and back trying to raise Cameron. Its always those who have no kids that think they know it all about child rearing, huh?? Robert shouldnt be calling Cameron "FAT". He has no right to call him those names. Those things never leave a child and one of these days, he is gonna call Cameron something, and find himself waking up on the floor. AND HE WILL DESERVE IT.
I dont know, it just seems to me that if his ex is such a good woman for him, he wouldnt want to live with you. He wouldnt want to be with anybody but her, dont you think?
(CONT'D)
OOPS, SORRY SO LONG! LOL!
Lahoma, get an attorney, and sue that school district. They are building a paper trail, from Cameron's classroom to the front door. They are trying to get rid of him, and its not for the right reasons. I think they are doing all this because he is not white. how are you gonna punish a child for tearing an eraser off a pencil? Was that the "SCHOOL PROPERTY" that he destroyed? thats so bullshit! And dont they require kids to have their own supplies and materials, such as pencils? So, the pencil he tore up, was probably his? I dont get it.....
He is never gonna be left alone. Never gonna be able to get the education that he is entitled to, and that others are getting at the same school, as long as this crap is allowed to go on. CAMERON DESERVES TO HAVE AN EDUCATION THE SAME AS ANY OTHER CHILD! Makes me sick....shit.....
okay, I just knocked my soapbox over and fell off. give me a holler when ya get around here. I am worried about you today.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers today, along with your family.
{{{{{{{{{Lah Lah}}}}}}}}}}}.....
Love you my friend,
Kim.
P.S.
I wanna know what the doc said about you. (If its okay to ask?)
I hope its okay, and not anything that cant be handle
LAHOMA, THAT ENTRY HAS CHAPPED MY ASS! THE NERVE!! THE RING DIDN'T EVEN HELP NONE! I'D SELL IT! BUT, THAT'S ME! I'M SORRY, I'M JUST WAY PASSED PISSED!
I LOVE YOU!
LISA
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