I wanted to mention this in my last entry but I got ahead of myself. So, I promise this will be short. (I hope. LOL) I've been living in West Virginia now for 4 or 5 years. I can't remember when we moved here. LOL But, the entire time I've been here I have been trying to contact my brothers. Two I found and now have somewhat of a relationship with them. The third one has either been avoiding me or getting different messages than I have sent.
I got word from him a few weeks ago through my SIL and here's what he had to say. "THAT NIGGER LOVING BITCH HAD BETTER HAVE ENOUGH SENSE NOT TO COME TO MY HOUSE BECAUSE NOT ONLY WILL SHE GET HER ASS STOMPED BUT WHOEVER IS STUPID ENOUGH TO BRING HER OR COME WITH HER WILL GET IT TOO BECAUSE THE ONLY THING SHE DESERVES IS TO HAVE HER THROAT SLIT FOR SPREADING HER LEGS AND LYING DOWN TO GET KNOCKED UP BY A NIGGER."
All that coming from the brother that I haven't seen since Cameron was three years old and this same brother that carried Cameron around on his hip all day bragging on how beautiful his nephew was and spoiling him rotten by buying him whatever he wanted and more. All the while promising me and Cameron that he would always be there for us.
What a joke! And yes, it hurt me something terrible. Even more, it hurt Cameron because he heard the entire conversation before I realized he was in the room.
Wanna know what's really funny about it? My brother must not know about our great, great, great grand father who was a black man.
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OMG! I am so sorry to hear this... your brother needs to... oh nevermind.
Give Cameron a hug for me... that was just BS
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I am so sorry to hear that this kind of ignorance is still alolowed to live. Right now I am infuriated. Family can do you worse than anybody on the planet. I had some things I wanted to get to my Mom and tonight Dirk and I did a 'drive by' and dropped them off on the steps, a place I haven't been 'allowed to go' for several years. It was an awful feeling to be right there on her property and at her doorstep, knowing she was inside but not be able to go on in and sit down. Her car was there, so I knew she was home. She will like the craft things I brought to her. I just want get to see her enjoy them. I am only saying this to let you know, that I KNOW how it it feels. Oh boy, do I! Sorry. Still kinda hurting from being right there and now not.
NELISHIA
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Some people just don't get it...but one day, he will. Sorry you and Cameron were hurt by that.
Happy New Year Lahoma!
OMG.
What a pathetic bigot he is. Millions just like him. Cameron is a GOOD kid...YOU are a wonderful person..he is the one missing out but that does not take away that he can sit and spew such garbage. I want to smack him. I am totally pissed.
i love you and i do not care color man you sleep with. I just want you to be happy.
lisa
Hi Lahoma,
I can't even imagine what that must have felt like. Racism angers me greatly and it's amazing to me that we're supposed to be smarter now than ever before, but I wonder. I wasn't taught it growing up, and I didn't even know what it was until I was in my early teens. It has no place in society, and especially in any family. Family is family, or it should be. Everyone, no exceptions, are of mixed heritage, so I think your brother may need to look at his own ancestry!
I'm so very sorry you are having to endure this, and also that Cameron had to hear it. Maybe it will serve to show him how ugly and wrong it is, and he won't grow up that way. I know you teach him right and now he has an example of very wrong attitudes and thinking.
Dirk
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Sometimes we are better off without even our family in our life.....he is not worth knowing and loving Cameron or you Lahoma....let him go and surround yourself and Cameron with people who love and deserve you.
omg! do you think that may have been misintepreted or exaggerated if he used to love Cameron so much?? That would be bad enough to say even if you weren't a sibling...Im so sorry he had to hear that. If you find out that is true put him on here and we will all KICK HIS SORRY ASS. But did chuckle at your last comment....great great great grandfather lol
Linda xx http://journals.aol.co.uk/lindachapmanuk/metamorphing
WHAT A SELF RIGHTEOUS HYPOCRITE!!! GRRRRR!! THAT MAKES ME SO MAD! I'D JUST HAVE TO FORGET ABOUT HIM IF THAT WAS MY BROTHER. GOD BLESS YOUR'S AND CAMERON'S SWEET HEARTS! LIKE YOU SAID..."IGNORANCE".
LOVE YOU BOTH!! :)
~LISA~
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